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Why are you doing this to me? What have I done so badly to you that you hate me this much? I have given you my best, and you still cheat on me? You only had three pairs of prison boxers and work clothes, and you were running an extension cord from your sister's house. When I met you, I made sure you were taken care of: I bought you a wardrobe, put shoes on your feet, got you haircuts, and moved you into a house with running water, heating, cooling, and electricity. But you ac

When you finally understand the groove of life and comprehend that real life is in Yahushua. There is nothing outside of Him that will make anyone complete. Of course, you experience the temporary delights of obtaining and achieving your desires. But anything that isn’t driven by Him is nothing in and of itself. There is nothing solid or everlasting in it. Why would anyone want to experience shallow wins outside of Abba’s approval? Only those who have not grasped the meaning

I got to a space in my head. That place that says “Maybe this is it and how my natural life will be.” The struggling, straining, striving, and trying to reason with why some things just aren’t coming around right, you know? I’ve fasted, prayed, meditated, stayed, laid my heart out to be inspected by the Chief Inspector. I’ve confessed, repented, sought out to bear the fruit of repentance. Laid these burdens down…. After picking them up again from time to time There isn’t anyt

For many believers - whether you keep Shabbat and the Feasts as a Messianic Believer- the workplace is meant to be a place where we can "do everything without grumbling or arguing" (Philippians 2:14) and let our conduct point to something higher. But most of us have also worked alongside someone whose conduct pointed only to themselves. Understanding the tactics of narcissistic coworkers or bosses isn't gossip or unforgiveness - it's discernment, and Scripture actually commen

"And rend your heart, and not your garments, and turn unto Yahweh your Elohim: for He is gracious and compassionate, patient, and of great kindness, and He shall relent concerning the evil." — Joel 2:13 Definition of Tear (or Rend): To separate a substance into parts with force or sudden violence; to tear asunder; to split - as powder rends a rock in blasting, or lightning rends an oak. Our ancestors tore their clothing as an outward sign of deep distress, anguish, and grief.

There is a kind of bondage that doesn't announce itself. It doesn't arrive with chains or threats. It comes dressed in desire, in flattery, in the feeling that you have finally been seen. By the time you realize something is wrong, you may feel as though a piece of your very soul belongs to someone else. This is not an accident. For the narcissist who dabbles in what Scripture calls "the works of darkness," it is often the goal. What Is Sex Magic? Sex magic is the use of sexu

"Why can't I just stop thinking about it?" If you've ever whispered that question into the dark after surviving a relationship with a narcissist, you are not alone—and you are not broken. Rumination is one of the most common and least understood aftereffects of narcissistic abuse. It is the relentless cycling of the same thoughts, memories, and questions through the mind—replaying conversations, interrogating your own choices, and wondering what was real and what was manufact

Also, it is not good for a soul to be without knowledge, And he sins who hastens with his feet. Proverbs 19:2 It was 2003. I was done. Done with jumping from one relationship to the next, done with instability, and done with men who weren’t ready to step up. I had two children and a vision: a real family, a stable home, a husband. I grew up with both a mother and father in the house, and I wanted my children to have that same foundation. What I didn’t want was the man I had b